tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post3523523540176004467..comments2023-10-15T06:01:44.429-04:00Comments on U Don't Like My Opinion...That's fine!: Heartless?sunshinestar110http://www.blogger.com/profile/06482675481139199030noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post-29604089028758545852009-10-13T09:52:54.881-04:002009-10-13T09:52:54.881-04:00Sunshine hunni, everyone has a story and I try to ...Sunshine hunni, everyone has a story and I try to remember that in my daily interactions with people, that their anger, hurt, snippyness or distance doesn't have anything to do with the people they interact with daily but the people from their past. I say that to say continue to be you but realize that there are people, even men, that have your best interest at heart and can love you if they let them, BUT continue to be you because when it is necessary for you to come aroud you will and not even realize it.Lipglass and Handbagshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07513760213787221889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post-41272548696146216062009-10-13T04:09:37.406-04:002009-10-13T04:09:37.406-04:00When writing my comment there was two songs that k...When writing my comment there was two songs that kept running through my head...one was Erykah Badu's Bag Lady and a song by City High. I couldn't think about the name or the lyrics, but it kept ringing in my head as I was typing. I had to go through my music collection a literealy wipe the dust of it, and find which song I was talking about. It's called "Cat and Dogs." It about how a guy is a dog or the man he is now, because of what a girl did to him, and made him a dog. The girl in the song is singing about how what he did to her, changed her for the worse, and she is probably goign to do the same to the the next guy. Just like Sorta what I was talking about.<br /><br />It feels like it's your story.YBandDL Bad PYT In the Closet at Hearbreak Hotelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03855511590229668723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post-77192486087136005312009-10-13T03:55:37.305-04:002009-10-13T03:55:37.305-04:00I have been on this, do we really know the people ...I have been on this, do we really know the people we read blogs about tip right now. So I am going to take that into consideration right now. However from what I read, I don't believe you are heartless person. I believe you have started to become a product of what your past relationships manufactured in you. I think are experiences whether good or bad, help sculpt us and helps to teach us, for our future. I think you should learn from those past relationships, but I think the problem here is you let those past relationships change who you are. <br /><br />Now I personally don't agree, with exactly the way you handled that situation with the ex, telling you about his best friend dying, however...yes, however I completely understand. I have been there, where no matter what you can't shake your anger and your hatred...hmm well I don't like hatred, because you shouldn't hate...so how about complete dislike for someone. I have been there too. Where that ice is in my veins for someone. That doesn't make it right though. There comes a time where you have to let things go. I think it takes a lot more energy to be unforgiving that it is to forgive. I'm not saying to forget though, just forgive or be the better person. <br /><br />I think, this was your chance to be the bigger person. You basically stooped down to Worthless' level. This was your chance to show him the difference between him and you, when it comes to almost the exact situation. <br /><br />Think about it like this. Think about if you were sympathetic, because you have been there in that situation, in loosing a friend in that way. You were sympathetic and an ear for him to talk to. You handle the situation complete different from how he did. Make him feel the guilt of how he should have treated you, when you were in that situation. Now some people are void of seeing themselves and how they treat others. This is however when you have to show them the difference. Whether later on its..."See how I didn't say hurtful things to you, when this happen, like you did to me years ago. See how you should have been a good person, but you weren't. I didn't want to hurt you like you hurt me no matter what was in my heart...and so on and so on." Guilt my friend can be wonder, when used right!<br /><br />Now back to whether you are heartless. I don't think so, for one reason. If you were heartless, than you wouldn't have cried about what you did after he called. Now your crying could have been a combination of the loss of the person and the way you treated Worthless, but if you were crying because of the way you were cold to Worthless, that means you are not heartless. <br /><br />You acted the way you thought you should act towards him. However your heart, which you have, felt differently, which made you cry. It knew that is not the way you wanted to act, but you acted the way you THOUGHT you should act. <br /><br />I don't know you and I don't know all of what you have been through. I think some people are born the way they are, and some people let others change them to who they are, whether good or bad. <br />I just want you to think on this...what if someone ot some people in Worthless life, changed him to be the worthless man he is now? <br /><br />Would you want to end up being some person who isn't the real you, because you let someoen like Worthless change you?<br /><br />I got much more to say on this but this comment is long enough....sorry!YBandDL Bad PYT In the Closet at Hearbreak Hotelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03855511590229668723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post-71404311125227074302009-10-13T00:39:09.647-04:002009-10-13T00:39:09.647-04:00*kanye voice* How could you be so heartless...(hea...*kanye voice* How could you be so heartless...(heartless) LOL! At times, I also feel a lil icebox where my heart is supposed to be but then I have to keep reminding myself that I can't be cold towards EVERYONE...even though some people dammit deserve it! But actually underneath all this ice is someone warm!<br /><br />You don't have to change who YOU are though. You weren't made to please everyone.★Starrlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00579391753293816772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post-47780697455570386622009-10-12T18:27:10.352-04:002009-10-12T18:27:10.352-04:00its easier to be heartless at times, don't gro...its easier to be heartless at times, don't grow into a bitter old woman thoughEuryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10282599263143495133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2583694928290589064.post-37206726900698685562009-10-12T17:18:36.163-04:002009-10-12T17:18:36.163-04:00*zippens lips**zippens lips*khaki la'dockerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01440579674433637389noreply@blogger.com