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The DMV, United States
I'm young, black, single and fabulous!!! Trying to live my life to the fullest before its all said and done with . I'm just trying to figure it all out!


Thursday, May 20, 2010

Afternoon Delight

Chad Micheal Murray
D.O.B. 8/24/1981

*sigh* If I was into white boys they would look exactly like him!!

Monday, May 17, 2010


Today is the day god blessed my parent and the world with this amazing being....ME!!! I'm celebrating my 25th birthday for the third time...so you do the math and figure out how old I really am!!!

This past year leading up to this point has been nothing but surprises and week learned lessons. I thank god for each of them and hope he grants me another year to continue on this journey of life. I learned alot about myself this past year some for the best some for the worst but all in all I made it through it. I cried a lot, laughed alot, learned who my friends are once again, added a little color to my life, got my heart broken...cried about it..closed that wound and decided that next year I won't give him the chance to reopen it, I hate long hair, the greatest joy in my life is my niece, need to be more patient and last because this list could go on and on discovered that I am much stronger than I lead myself to believe.

The more you praise and celebrate life, the more there is in life to celebrate.-Oprah Winfrey

I'm sure this shall be an eventful week and weekend..i'm sure pics will be coming ....


Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Throwback Thursday

Senior Day 2001!!!! This was my last day at school before graduation day!
We all were so excited about what was to come. I remember i had big plans for that summer and for school! This was around the time i wanted to major in Law and become a lawyer... Needless to say that so didn't happen law wasn't my strong area. This guy in this pic is still my friend to this day I see him at least 3 times a month..we have become very close crazy thing is we barely even talked to each other in high school now i can't imagine life without his friendship!

Afternoon Delight

James Franco
Actor best known for his appearances in Spiderman, Spiderman 2, and Spriderman 3

I had to switch the game up on yall and give you some delight from a different race.

Those Big Birthday Plans that I was once thumbing over in my head and watching my friends back out of one by one have come to a crashing end *sobs* Thanks to the fact that I had to buy a new car last weekend it has taken all my extra money and ran with it. I love the car and it was needed since my old one had $1700 worth of problems that wasn't even worth me fixing. The tattoo *sobs harder* that I had my eye on too which was going to be my birthday gift to myself has been left behind in the past along with my table at the club idea. My new car is my gift to myself my expensive gift to myself. So I guess I'm taking the low key way this year for my birthday and just do dinner with possibility of clubbing the common way as my cousin Kiah would say.

So I guess I will be rounding up my friends for drinks and dinner with clubbing as a bonus thought added...I say that but I'm sure we will hit the club to bring my birthday in right it just wouldn't be right for Epitome to grace DC with her presence without doing the club scene.


Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Yeah.....Follow Me

At first I was kind of on the fence about this blog but today when she posted and confessed her undying love for Travis McCoy I realized that she may be my long lost sister...LMAOOOOOOOOOO..

So go ahead click on that right deeerrrrr and check her out..

I cosign this one along with Epitome!! so u know its official

Inappropriate or Not?

Yesterday the blog sites were buzzing with this picture of Kim Porter and her son Quincy sharing a mother's day kiss.

Some called this moment that they shared inappropriate and that a 17 year old shouldn't not be still kissing his mother on her lips like this. Others called it disgusting that Kim would even allow her son to kiss her like that *kanye shrug* I heard about this moment long before I saw the picture and truth be told i had prepared myself for the worst but when I finally got to see this pic I didn't really see what all the hoopla was about. I thought it was just a kiss that mother and son were sharing showing the bond and love that they share. Maybe this picture didn't rub me wrong before I come from a family were we kiss like that...yeah so that just sounded weird but I'm sticking with hat statement. My nephew who is 13 still kisses me like this and my brother too so I don't see where the problem lies. Is it because we are in era right now when emotional aren't shown too much or is it because its Kim Porter who is taking place in this kiss? makes you think a little bit. Quincy did respond to all the drama with this kiss....

"There were a lot of mixed opinions and judgements that surfaced the internet today concerning the kiss i gave my mother on Mother’s Day. I think it deserves a personal response from me……

Yesterday was Mother’s Day; A special day to celebrate and give thanks to all mothers and mother figures present in our lives. I chose to express my love and devotion to my Mother, not only by presenting her with gifts and verbal means of appreciation, but by sharing my LOVE for her with the WORLD; A KISS! I come from a warm, loving and close family. It really is a secure feeling to be apart of a caring family, and my Mother is so much apart of the warmth and love that helps us appreciate and enjoy one another. All through the years, I’ve kissed my Mom, my Grandmother, and my Great-Grandmothers………With more kisses to come."

I couldn't agree with you more Quincy well said!

Tell me what you think INAPPROPRIATE or NOT?

Tuesday, May 4, 2010


Today was my day to pose the question of the day for my email group..ok that might have sounded lame but my cousins and I do this once a week to get advice on something or just to see where each of our heads are at. After I asked this question to them I decided I would love to hear what yall have to say...so here it goes...

Could you ever marry a man/or women who didn't want kids in the future?

let me give you a little bit more to think about before you answer. Lets say he or she has kids of their own and just don't want to add anymore to the equation and you do. Would that be an defining factor in the future or not?

Starrla, Khaki, Epitome, and Lipglass and Handbags I especially want to hear from ya'll! oh and I can't forget tha unpretentious narcissist I need to hear a males point of view too!!!!

Monday, May 3, 2010

Afternoon Delight

Floyd Mayweather Jr.
DOB 2/24/1977

Now I'm not into boxing that much but I love me some Floyd

and this was only right since he just defeated Shane Mosley!!!