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The DMV, United States
I'm young, black, single and fabulous!!! Trying to live my life to the fullest before its all said and done with . I'm just trying to figure it all out!


Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Day 31 of 365 Days of Pictures

Happy Hour's Finest!

Monday, January 30, 2012

Day 30 of 364 Days of Pictures

My Tinkapooh got her
first tooth!!! My baby
is growing up tooooo fast!

Day 29 of 365 Days of Pictures

My nails for the next 2 weeks...
I like these not in love with them tho...

Day 28 of 365 Days of Pictures

We eat good!!!!!

Friday, January 27, 2012



I saw these things while surfing the web. I saw Heel Condoms and had to click on it!!!! Lawd, now I'm in love and needless to say I have already ordered me a pair because i have some heels that need some thing added to them to make them stand out!!!

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Day 26 of 365 Days of Pictures

I saw it and had to have it
for my desk!!!

Day 25 of 365 Days of Pictures

I was faithfully dragging my ass
to get waxed every couple of months and
it is not one of the most joyous things, when it comes to the pain.
I found this one day in walmart looking for make up..smh
and it is the best thing that has happened to my life!!!
It gives me that super close cut so waxing
is no longer needed!!
and i would like to thank the Brazilian wax gods for that!!

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Day 24 of 365 Days of Pictures

It might look kinda of gross because
of the green sauce, but i
swear on everything this damn
chicken enchilada is the best thing
at Rosa Mexicano!

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

BGC *thumbs down*

I love reality shows... the trashier the better but after season after seaon of watching the Bad Girls Club let me just say, i shall not and will not anymore. Season 1 I was amused by this out of control women fighting, drinking, and fucking. Season 2 I was on the fence about the show and as time went on I just could not bring myself watch a whole season of it.

The ratings our super high and apparently american's love the show but what exactly is the point of the show to begin with. To make us women look bad? You would think after 8 weeks or however long they are together that something would change...Like why doesn't anyone provide them with the help that they need. They all have their share of problems, Anger being some of their biggest issues, so why are they allowed to run wide a punch each other in their faces. I remember season 1 they said it will be a learning experience and they will come out changed women....hmmmmmm yeah right. They could careless how much they have changed they are too busy trying to be the last man standing to show who is the baddest bitch. It bothers me to see foolishness ever so often. I, confess i do watch all those other shows that make us look bad but for some reason the BGC is the bottom of the bottom. I never in a million years want young girls to think this how women act or something they need to do. I never want young boys to thik that is what women do in this spare time because it is far from the truth. For once I want a reality show being geared to making these women better women. Getting them the help they need addressing their issues so they can be better women, mothers and/or wives. The fact they are placed in party cities do not help the situation it is as if they are setting them up for failure and when fights break out why does the producer act so surprised by what they are seeing or hearing. Oh not to mention we reunite these chicks and watch them once again, curse, spit and fight each other and now why do we think men can be so disrespectful sometimes. Last, night i tried to watch the BGC Las Vegas but 30 minutes in they were drunk and fighting each other..*sigh* and that is when i turned the station. I once enjoyed this kind of entertainment but then I realized that this can be the the picture many people paint of us in their heads. Drunk, fighting, fucking whore...smdh

Day 23 of 365 Days of Pictures

Happy Birthday to my first Tattoo.
lol..she is 10 years old today!

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Day 20 of 365 days of pictures

The best thing that happened to
my Friday night!!!!! Thanks Karen!

Friday, January 20, 2012

I'm It!!!!

So one of my favorite Bloggers Starrla Monae tagged me in a post and of course I'm on it. So here it is...

  1. You must post 11 random things yourself.

  2. Answer the questions the tagger set for you in their post.

  3. Create 11 new questions for the people you tag to answer.

  4. Go to their blog and tell them that you've tagged them.

11 Random Things about me:

My nail polish never matches the polish on my toes. I just can't make that kind of commitment lol.

I hate being a girlfriend.

I'm good with names and faces, my friends depend on me to keep all of that in tact lol

I can't swim

I'm addicted to Bingo

All my closest friends are males and are probably the only ones who know all of my secrets

I am NOT looking forward to my 30th birthday at all!

I'm a cheater...yep...this is the longest i have ever been without cheating on my bf.

I use the shit at least 100 times a day.

To this day im scared to swallow a apple seed because my brother told me a tree will grow in my stomach.

I have never had a weave!!!ever...

11 Questions from Starrla Monae

1. What inspires you?

My Aunt, she is the driving force in my life. I take notes from her often and aspire just to be half the woman she is.

2. What is your earliest childhood memory?

My 3rd birthday party, when I had to be rushed the emergency room because I busted my knee open jumping off of the picnic table.

3. What is your favorite thing to cook/eat?

Tacos!!! I have learned to make them from scratch instead of buying the kit...they are easy to make and not time consuming.

4. What's the name of your favorite book?

The coldest Winter ever.

5. Do you remember your first love?

Yep, like it was yesterday.

6. What is your dream job?

A party planner which i could probably do now but its just not the right time.

7. Do you have any phobias?

yesss... the dark I hate the dark, I refuse to walk into a dark room.

8. If you had to lose one of your five senses, which one would it be?


9. Are you left handed or right handed?


10. Do you have any hidden talent?


11. If you won $500,000 what would you do with it?

Drop some cash on my parents, pay off my bills, and invest the rest

So I have no way 11 people to tag and Starrla tag those I would thing of sooooo lets see if I can get 3 or four down:

Monique @ Unscripted Musing

Shay @ chaoticDay dreams

Lakiswirl @ Rants of an Unknown Chick

11 Question for my tagged group

1. Most embarrassing moment?

2. If you live anywhere in the world where would it be?

3. Favorite Song?

4. Light or Dark?

5. Are you a girly girl or tomboy?

6. Favorite place to eat?

7. Would advice you get yourself 18 year old, now that you are an adult?

8. Have you ever been in love?

9. Favorite memory with your best friend?

10. What is your favorite color?

11. Who can you depend on the most?

.....and I'm out.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Day 19 Of 365 Days of Pictures

If looks could kill....She was mad I interrupted her
during her show..

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

He Keeps Coming

The mood is always right. All day he calls me at work and whispers nothing but thoughts and dream into my ear. He just doesn't know how much I enjoy those little moments, it send me to a whole another world, I close my eyes and just get lost in the thought of him and I. I try to race home each and every evening because I miss him so much and when I don't come straight home he lingers in my thoughts until I can feel him. I make it home and everything is perfect, dinner is always good and our convo never misses a beat, he is all I dream of and more. He lays down next to me while I caught up on all my trashy shows and never interrupts, while occasionally just to remind me that he is still there, he leaves for head kisses and I can't wait for us to lay together. When I take a shower he always finds his way there, he showers me with his love and I jump out to run to my bedroom just to be with him once again.

I always get excited about this part of the evening, I dry off and set the mood, dim light, the sweets candles are lit and there he lays just waiting for me to embrace him. My heart always skips a beat when I know that this will be the end of a long work day. I replay his sweets whispers and crawl into the bed with him. I wrapped myself up in him and just wait for him to evade my mind and body. We get into the moment and I close my eyes in ecstasy he always knows how to take care me and just like that its over....I open my eyes and see nothing but darkness and he is no longer there. I close my eyes again to give him time to return but he never does, I check my phone to see the time and give him more time and just like that I'm laying alone. lord know I love him, would have him in my life forever, I'm even willing to share him with others but I guess that means nothing to him. Let me tell you about this man I have been having a love affair with for years, from the moment he creeped into my life I never wanted him to leave. For years I have been fucking this dude named INSOMNIA, he keeps coming but I never do.

Someone please call him and tell him that my love for him will die and that just once I would love to feel the ecstasy of him coming and staying for a full 8 hours of sleep.

Day 18 of 365 Days of Pictures

No Words are even needed!!!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Day 17 of 365 Days of Pictures

I love, love my nails this week!!!! And
I also love my Celeste for finally
doing them for me!!!
I will enjoy our 2 weeks together!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Day 16 of 365 Days of Picture

My friend/nail tech.....I tried to catch her
taking a pic of herself but she caught me!! lol

Day 15 of 365 Days of Pictures

She is sooo extra sometimes...

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Day 14 of 365 days of pictures

I'm addicted to pinterest and this is how
i spent my Saturday night..smh

Day 13 of 365 days of Pictures

And I ask Why are you looking at a hot pink gun Celeste?!?

Day 12 of 365 days of pictures

The best thing that ever happened
to my water!!!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Day 10 Of 365 days of Pictures

These have saved my life!!! I decided to change my eating habits...and needed to replace my chocolate cookies!!! There is only 3 flavors and this one that doesn't taste like paper!

What's Your Expiration Date?

This question came about while watching Love and Hip Hop; Tierra Mari posed this question to Chrissy and Emily while discussing their long relationships with their boyfriends. I posed this question to a couple of my friends and they went to heavy thought about when is the expiration date of a relationship without full commitment…marriage.

Now I have thought about this plenty of times before matter of fact for every relationship I get myself into I have a date in my head for how long I’m going to continue this before I call it all off. Wrong?!?! It might be but one thing I was taught growing up was never give a man all you got and in returns he doesn’t return the favor. I refuse to spend the next 10 years of my life being with a man who never loves me enough or cares enough to make me his wife. I watch my Aunt be with a man for over 15 years and never got a full commitment out of him, she has his babies, kept his house up and did everything that a wife does without the ring and one day he woke up and left…and 2 year later he marries someone else. Yep, that will never be me…ever because Sunshine has an expiration date. I love Lil Richmond with all my heart but I can not and will not spend years waiting on a false hope or chasing this hope, don’t want to provide a man with everything a wife is and can be without being that. Lil Richmond spent years with his ex girlfriend, who had his baby they brought a house and he did gave her a ring because he felt like he had no other choice, truth be told he said he had no plans to marry her and clearly he didn’t. I know that I could be ending something great by putting an expiration date on our relationship but maybe that is what it needs. Maybe you have to walk away from something to see how real it is. But if it was real than that expiration date will never come. I never really talk about the expiration date I have placed on Lil Richmond and I but believe me it is there…I’m not getting no younger and don’t have time to invest everything into him and return with nothing but what I walked in with.

Don’t get me wrong I will hold you down and I do that but I draw my line. We will not be playing house without our house being sealed with a commitment. My grandmother use to tell me all the time never give a man the milk for free because he will never buy the cow and I strongly believe that. I have friends who have been in their relationships for years, had babies, brought houses and now they are like…what’s next? I’m not knocking anyone for doing these things but when do you say I want more, when do you say or figure out that all this time should be marked with more. I also don’t believe in putting the press on a man to get him to marry you. The one thing I can’t stand is to see a woman give a man ultimatum on marriage, you should never have to plead your case and make threats to be his wife. I watched Chrissy do this week after week with Jim Jones and it bothered me to the end of no return, I never want a ring because you feel like it something you have to do but rather he loves me so much that he can’t be without. The marriage press will only get you the ring but it will come with plenty resentment. And lawd knows when a wedding will ever happen. As women we love hard and strong but you have to have an expiration date before you spend the rest of your life chasing a false hope. So I say put an expiration date on it so I know its r

Monday, January 9, 2012

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Day 8 of 365 days of pictures

My Furry niece Carter!!!

Day 7 of 365 days of pictures

Smdh @ this dude rapping one minute to Young Jeezy and the next minute being passed out!!! I see what kind of friend you are Phil!!!

Day 6 of 365 of Pictures

I love these earrings and could not wait to wear them!!!! I was so excited when my friends said "hey Sunshine we need to go to the founders day party for the Kappa's" of course i said yes just to put these on...they are such a statement piece and I got attention for them all night!!!

Friday, January 6, 2012

Afternoon Delight...2012 Edition

Lawd have mercy!!! When i saw him I stopped dead in my tracks!!!!! I'm love...

Victor "Macho" Harris, jr
Pittsburgh Steelers

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Day 5 of 365 of Pictures

yessssss...If you didn't know ask somebody!

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Day 4

The things people let us do while drunk!!!! lmaoooooooo

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Day 3 My niecy pooh

My niece KK she is a handful but she is part of the triple threat of amazing nieces that I have and keep me smiling! I love those girls!!!!!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Day 2 Photo Challenge.

Day 2
Brunch with Ty. Now him and I have been friends for over 10 years and it doesn't matter how much time we spend apart we get back together and talk as if we have spoken everyday for a months.

This day he who is all about time was 45 minutes late for our brunch date and what does he do the whole time we are there talk on his phone...smh..

I Welcome 2012 with a Challenge!

I made only 1 resolution for 2012 and that was to blog more....I have really been slacking so to help with my blog more challenge I decided to take a picture everyday for 365 days!!! Yep, I have challenged myself!! I have marked in my phone calendar to keep up with my blog efforts. And guess what I am already a day behind so here is mine from yesterday nad depending how the day go it will be updated today!!

Day 1
After loading up my liver and life with drink after drink for NYE, I woke up starving half to death and guess what I found food at Cracker Barrel!!! Yesssssss the lawd knows my heart.