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I'm young, black, single and fabulous!!! Trying to live my life to the fullest before its all said and done with . I'm just trying to figure it all out!


Sunday, October 30, 2011

I'm Addicted...

I rolled my eyes at my friends for being so into all this vampire stuff from true blood to twilight I just was not feeling it nor giving it a chance. It had to be all those tweens who were going crazy over team Jacob and team Edward. I refused to having any conversation about the vampire things and called one of my male friends a fool for getting himself wrapped up in true blood i told him sir we are too old for that...lol..

So the other day after working my ass off I turned on the tv to find it was nothing to watch absolutely nothing to watch but Twilight *sigh* At first I fought with myself about even thinking about watching this movie, I also pre programmed criminal minds to interpret the movie just so I would be forced into watching the whole thing. Before i knew it was completely engulfed in the movie!!! smh..who knew it was going to be as good as it was. I had to call me sister and ask a thousand questions about what in the world was going on and to DVR criminal minds because I could not tear myself away from Twilight. I found myself ever so often hitting the ooohhhh and awwww's while watching it and couldn't decide if i like Jacob or not....lmaooooo... When the movie finally went off I ran myself to netflix to see i could order the next couple of movies so i could be update to go see the movie when it comes out.

Needless to say I think I might have a small addiction to the twilight series but I refuse to confess that information to any of my friends and since none of them read my blog...that i know of this secret is safe with yall!!!

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Part Time Friends...Full Time Problems

Over the years I have watched a lot of my “friends” come and go. One day everything is all good and the next thing I know it they gone like the wind, I like to refer to them as part time friends, who are full time problems. Lately I have watched a lot of them sign up for part time hours when it comes to friendship, I have to say some of them I knew when the weather broke they would break with it but others…who knew!!!!

I spent the whole summer watching and learning from these part time friends, you know them when you see them, the ones who want to know your every move and why you didn’t invite them to make that same more with them. The friend who is always looking for something to get into when you have plans without her and never invites you on her/his trips, plans, or whatever the case may be. The summer is usually when these part time friends want full time hours, you find yourself at every club, cookout, festival, bar there is all spring/summer long. You look at your Facebook photos hell even your twicpics are full of pic with her standing somewhere posing her heart out. But labor day hits and the weather chills up a little bit and now we are not wearing those peep toes anymore and have pulled out those cute fall/winter knee high boots. All those phone calls from part time friend is far and in between and you see them on FB and twitter with there new group of “friends” doing all things that the fall brings about lol… Those are officially your part time friends they are only hot when the weather is hot! Yep I shall confess that I have those part time friends in my life, I knew a lot of them once again was nothing but that but its very entertaining to see how quick they change….and trust me they always due. Some can be a little bit of late bloomers usually not showing their true colors until after Halloween but usually that is the end of the part time friendship until next summer.

Part time friends with full time problem run around in almost each and everyone’s circle….they are gone for the winter but do make an appearance for special events such ass: X-mas eve, Halloween, NYE and anytime they know you would know how to get into or be apart of the hottest party at that current moment. Oh yeah there is the times they pick up the phone calling you crying with there lastest problem…boyfriend issues, pregnant, need a place to stay and list goes on they sure know how to find you when shit hits the fan. That’s why I call them full time problems they always find you and the friendship when they don’t know what to do.

Well since the weather has broke and the cold air has creeped its way back into our lives…I shall now take watch to all the part time friends who will creep themselves back where they came from…until the nest summer…lol

But nobody really cares....

I have said this over over over again...time after time again on twitter and I will say it again...I CAN'T Stand A BRAGGER!!! Yep its true one of my biggest pet peeves are people no matter whom they are who brag non stop about any and everything in life. Lately I have been witness to this on a regular basis. I have a couple people in my life who makes this bragging thing an everyday occurance in their life, my tweeter timeline and Facebook feed… it’s happening so much that others who share friendships with these people have asked me a million questions about it.

Maybe it’s the way I was raised but talking about what you got, how much it cost, and how you about to buy this and that was not the business. I grew up in an area that all that bragging was liable to get you got and robbed but hey that’s just me. To be honest I don’t really know how to bring to their attention that all that bragging is not the business without coming across as a total bitch… which is my usual attitude lol. Especially in this current time and in the state of the economy bragging really isn’t what the whole world wants to hear. Because someone who may have been able to drop the cash you bragging about, can’t do it now.

I’m not being a hater or trying to rain on there parade and joy but sometimes its just over kill to continuously talk about all you have or doing. Ok, maybe a quote or two but not every day at least 10 times a day I can see nothing but the bragging going on. I remember back in the day that bragging would get you punched in the mouth on the playground or something much worst. Also feel like some of he things that are being bragged about are things that at this point in our lives we as adults are doing…buying houses, cars, getting married and having babies its all falls under the being adult category. As for the other things like dropping $750 for a purse or $1500 for some shoes….people in reality I don’t really care and if I wanted to know I would inquire on these things….I think that sounded a little off but you get me drift.

Thursday, October 20, 2011


So I've been really slacking on my blogging and someone *cough* DianaBoss brought that to my attention the other day!! To be honest nothing has been going on around me to inspire a blog but I promise I'll try my hardest this weekend to knock one out!! which going to be hard because its Howards Homecoming and here in DC that is a huge event...