Day 3 Parents

It’s kinda hard to explain my relationship with my parents,I share completely different relationship with them.  Of course if you don’t already know my mother and I don’t get along at all..AT ALL.  She leaves out of family functions and celebration, so we don’t reallt talk about anything really, unless its mother related.  Like, I need to know how to stop my nose from bleeding or I have a cleaning question.  She knows nothing about my personal life and I can’t even remember the last time we hugged or kissed each other.  She kind of treats me like the evil step child, which didn’t become so noticeable until I hit my 20’s. Now my father and I speak often about a lot of things, he knows a lot about me and my personal life.  We have dinner together once a week and watch The Big Bang theory often.  He didn’t become this kind of person until my niece was born almost 4 years ago… We girl talk all the time and we share gossip with each other….lol..I jump into his bed and we just watch Aminal planet together, although he can be a complete  asshole from time to time we share a good relationship.  He has tried his best to get my mother to interact with me more but….

Day 2 Fears

Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.


My three fears are:


Large masses of water, ok ok so I blame my cousin for this because we went to the beach one time as children and he wanted me to go deep in the water with him…I can’t swim so I told him to make sure I don’t drown. Before I knew a wave it and dragged my ass away and I was fighting to stay alive. Needless to say that someone saved me and till the day I don’t party with large masses of water.

Darkness. I never ever.. ever.. ever walk into an completely dark room ever!!! I did that one time and my cousin jumped off of his bunk bed and scared me half to death. He also bite me like a vampire that day..smdh..I scared for life. No matter where I sleep at it has to be some type of light so the darkness doesn’t swallow me whole.

Last but not least…. I never put my feet at the bottom of my bed in fear that Freddy Kruger is going to pull to me to hell with him. Lmao…it’s a crazy fear but Lil Richmond will tell you keep my feet as far as I can away from the foot of the bed. I mostly sleep in the fetal position to avoid Freddy touching my feet.

Day 1 Random Facts About Me

List 20 random facts about yourself

1. My middle name is Lashelle


2. I love dresses, if I could I would wear one every day.

3. I can cry on cue.

4. As a child, I wanted to be either rapper/lawyer or doctor/rapper

5. I call my brother every day to tell him about my day.

6. My feelings hurt easily.

7. I have a lot of random pointless information stored in my memory

8. I scream out YOLO out in awkward situations or just when there is a silent moment

9. I have nothing but girl names picked out for my children and I only want boys..figures

10. I’m kind of anti-social

11. I hate school

12. I put the tip of my nails in my mouth when I’m thinking.

13. I curse like a sailor

14. I have my wedding vows already written…they come from a hallmark card! Don’t judge me

15. I’m a book worm

16. I love old gangster movies

17. I’m a total bitch sometimes

18. My sister had me believing I was adopted for the first 9 years of my life

19. I hate wearing heel but stay buying them.

20. I feel incomplete if I don’t sleep with my blanket.

Challenge Ahead

Well, well,well I have not really been blogging lately. First, because these crazy hours I am not working and the fact my life is sooo dull right now..super dull. In order to get myself back in the blogging spirit I decided to this 30 day challenge I stumbled upon.




30 Day Challenge

THE LIST:



1. List 20 random facts about yourself.

2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.

3. Describe your relationship with your parents.

4. List 10 things you would tell your 16 year-old self, if you could.

5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?

6. What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced?

7. What is your dream job, and why?

8. What are 5 passions you have?

9. List 10 people who have influenced you and describe how.

10. Describe your most embarrasing moment.

11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.

12. Describe a typical day in your current life.

13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.

14. Describe 5 strengths you have.

15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?

16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?

17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?

18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?

19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?

20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.

21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?

22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?

23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.

24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.

25. If you could have dinner with anyone in history, who would it be and what would you eat?

26. What popular notion do you think the world has most wrong?

27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?

28. What is your love language?

29. What do you think people misundertand most about you?

30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for.



Feel free to join…..

I Once Knew

I saw that Nicki Minaj quote and it inspired this blog.




I don’t feel the same way about our friendship that I did let’s say 4 years ago. Those years were great years for us, we were friends. If you had asked me then if I thought that now we would barely be friends I would have called you a liars but as the world works we are not the best of friends anymore…sometimes I don’t even think we are friends. I’ve learned a lot about myself the last couple of years, I’ve changed..they changed nothing is meant to stay the same forever. I often look at one of my fave pictures of us and can’t believe that we are not even nearly that close at all. I will take responsibility for some of my actions in our friendship, true; I stopped being so available, true; I found time for my other friends, true; I got new friends. I recently sat in a room with 3 of my former close friends, I sat in my corner and watched them interact with each other, I don’t think I was jealous…well I know I wasn’t jealous more sad that we have gotten to this point. One of them I completely don’t speak to anymore and she was the first one I befriended. She and I had been through a lot together, the good, bad ugly and when she got pregnant I stood by her when her baby daddy backed out on her. Although we don’t speak I have no ill will towards her, we didn’t have a big blow out, just a simple we don’t speak anymore. Some of that we don’t speak anymore is because of some things that were brought to my attention by another party, Now that hurt my feelings and I still carry that to this day. Maybe a year ago I attempted to work things out but she played me to the left and last night when I walked in to the bar and she was there I played her to the left. I half ass spoke to her and never really addressed her, ok truth moment I’m a mean girl and when I cut you off I make it none that we don’t speak….and nor did she speak to me. Friend #2 came along after friend #1 matter of fact they are friends because of me…..funny huh..i don’t speak to one barely speak to the other and they talk all the time. #2 is kind of a hard situation to iron out, I think she believes that we aren’t good friends anymore because of her boyfriend, he is a little tiny bit part of the problem but there are other reasons to company that too. I took a step back from our friendship re evaluate the situation, a lot of shady went on, a lot of forced situations took place and I got tired of it. And things became hugely real last year at my “birthday dinner”..but that is a different blog for a whole another day. Last but not least is friend #3..what can I say about her is that she makes bad life choices, also I learned from trial and error that I couldn’t tell her or #2 much of anything because it was just getting repeated to each other. Then who is made out as the bad guy.. ME..#3 and I were never as close as 1 and 2 , things came to a end for us when she became something like a hater when she found out about me entertaining some lil young dude she knows.

Last night a part of me almost wanted us to smooth things over but the other part told me I was better off without. Of course I have a couple of female friends who are not them and I love them to death, we have good times together but it is nothing like what I use to share with them. I read that Nicki quote and it made me think of them…not saying I don’t love them cuz I do , it just is crazy when people who share something with turn into people you just know. People that you see passing in the ways or when a birthday or wedding is taking place or when something tragic brings us with one another.

Well like it is always said…all good things must come to an end and this is no different.

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I haven't posted my nails in awhile and i'm absolutely

in love with these.  Wale inspired....my Trayvon Martin

tribute nails

A Nail Artist Tribute for Trayvon Martin

Unless you have been under a rock or just donn't really care you have heard about Trayvon Martin.  I think has weighed heavy on my mind since I heard about the incident that has changed alot of people's lives.  I am a strong believer in standing up in what you believe and I want justice for not only Trayvon but for every young African American male who is faced with kind of injustice everyday.  Trayvon could've easily been my brother, nephew, cousin, and god son.  With that  said I didn't have to think twice when my nail tech Celeste called asked me take part in her tribute to Trayvon, its her artist view on remebering Trayvon and what we fight everyday.