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Tuesday, April 20, 2010

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Each and every year for my birthday I try and do something that me and my friends can enjoy or just act like they enjoy its my birthday just put a smile on your face and go along with it. At first I wanted to take a trip somewhere fun, I thought Vegas if we wanted to do something but if not Atlantic City is far but close and we would still have fun. After long hours of thinking I said myself" Self how about we keep it to a minimal until you hit 30 and then do it big." myself was so right maybe I'll save my big birthday blow out until a birthday that came with so much more weight than this one. myself and I have very interesting conversations!! don't judge me.

In my head i had planned out a night of dinner and clubbing nothing to out of the normal. I made reservations for a Chocolate bar for us to do something a little different its the only one in DC i thought it would be entertaining and dance on our taste buds *pause* and then straight to the club and pop a bottle or two in the club.........................................but today all of that became a thing of the past, it was just to many technical problem with the whole situation. Just too many opinions of what i should do and why I do it. I thought I was putting something together that we usually wouldn't do but now I see why we don't usually do things as a big group. I got half who have no problem fronting a little bit of extra cash for the table and others who are as cheap as can be. I thought the number i gave them was what we usually spend anyway we a dub to get in and usually spend $$ on drinks that range from $10- $15 so it kind of evened its self out but i guess i was wrong. I thought that drinking before we go the restaurant, and I'm sure before we hit the club (sn: I don't support drinking and driving, so will only drink at stop signs,lights and when the car is in park) After spending half of my day listening to all these people telling me how they think that's too much , or its not enough money, or enough alcohol I have decided to call the whole fuckin thing off. I just not going to do anything no dinner , no club just sit at home with MY alcohol and watch golden girls or something of that nature and rethink alot of my relationships with certain people. I guess i thought that for my birthday people would suck up whatever problem they had and enjoy the night with me but i guess I was wrong. I tired to explain to them the more people the less money us to front but they didn't want to hear that one at all. I'm really starting to question some of relationships with people...maybe because I would drop the money with without thinking twice about because that's friends do right. I guess that's what certain friends do...SO I guess this birthday will be a straight chill day after all.


6 comments:

khaki la'docker said...

what the fawk?!?!!? Uhm, darling, it your birthday so you should do whatever the hell you please and if your "friends" arent up to participate then... you still do what you want to do. I dont like you crying n shit like a BBB... man up- and fuck them hoes. Sorry for the rant but I know how that shit feels.

we can hold hands and walk around the zoo if you want... like, ill buy you ice cream an' erethang.

JStar said...

Mmmn where is that Chocolate bar at in DC??? Sounds like something I need to check out, its sad I dont know half of what we have here LOL...I agree with Khaki...Its YOUR day and the ones that dont come, sorry for their loss...Enjoy YOUR day to the fullest! The most important ones WILL suck it up....

Lipglass and Handbags said...

Ummmm NO!!! That is not the plan at all! You find something that you want to do for your birthday, do THAT, and whoever isn't apart of it so be it...forget them!!! Don't punish yourself because of the issues of others....*shit* I have done that TOO MANY times!!!!!

jazzyjaz said...

Don't let them spoil what you got going on...Fuck em!!! Its your birthday you do what you want no sitting at home being bored and sad go put on your freak em dress get bodied lol...

UglyCleanBroke87 said...

I'm feeling you on this...my b-day was a couple weeks ago and it did NOT go the way I planned it at all. Don't know why folks always gotta be difficult. I agree with everyone else though; whoever is being a cheap-ass can stay at home while you party. Happy belated b-day by the way. :)

★Starrla Monae☆ said...

My SunshineStar! It's YOUR birthday for crying out loud! If whomever is complaining about $$$ doesn't want to go then do it big without them! Excuses are tools of incompetence! Get your ride or dies and you all make the absolute best of your day. Ugh I can't stand wet blanket ass people! If I was rich I'd say girl catch this jet to Miami and come party with us!

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