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Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Question Of The Day



Would you be able to get back with man/woman after he /she has cheated on you?

I wanna hear from ya'll...

7 comments:

Lipglass and Handbags said...

I've never been cheated on and I honestly do not know. I do believe that everyone is entitled to a second chance and that people can change. Would there be consequences, lack of trust? Yes. However, I believe that with time, hardwork, loyalty and faith from BOTH people that relationship can come back out on a happier more fulfilling note.

JStar said...

I feel you Lipglass but me, I cant...I just couldnt trust again...If he does it, he better not let me find out...People do make mistakes and deserve a second chance...I just cant be that understanding one...

★Starrla Monae☆ said...

Maannnn.....I'd hate to think that a man who is with me would feel the need to cheat on me instead of just breaking up with me first. I already have a hard enough time trusting and now you're telling me I have to forgive him for CHEATING??? There was something lacking in the relationship which caused him to step out so just be gone and let me be. I love hard and I hurt worst. Why come trying to reconcile AFTER the fact? You should've had enough willpower to prevent it from happening. I feel like there's nothing left to talk about.

VonDign said...

nah if that was so she made a decision and i couldnt be able to forgive her..if i did it the relationship wouldnt be healthy anyway...its best to just leave it alone

dearly beloved. said...

Naaaah son! I live & die by this quote..

"if there was ever any TRUE devotion involved, your heart will not let your mind spoil that faithfulness."

If someone LOVES you they don't compromise what you have for some new nani. I don't have time or energy to deal with that type of shit. When females take dudes back its NEVER the same. The trust is gone! They will forever suspect he is doing dirt.

Love = Trust... If I can't trust you I can't continue to truly love you.

MsKrissy said...

nope. Because I'd never trust him again. And a relationship without trust is no relationship at all. I'm good.

tha unpretentious narcissist © said...

hell naw. that's why my ex wife is my ex wife.

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