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I'm young, black, single and fabulous!!! Trying to live my life to the fullest before its all said and done with . I'm just trying to figure it all out!


Thursday, December 17, 2009

Lesson Well Learned....

I stole this off a segment they were holding on the radio and I said Ha! that would be a great blog topic and I would love to hear what ya'll have to say about this one...

What is one thing/lesson you learned in 2009?

I learned that's once a loser always a loser, and that will never change. I tried my hardest in 2009 to help my ex find himself and be a better person but that fool was just stuck on being a spoiled mamas boy for the rest of his life. We weren't even together when i decided that he needed a little push so i sucked up my pride and tried my hardest to show him the way and hold his hand but that fool was beyond stupid. He enjoyed living with grandmar and living off of what his father and mother was providing for him. So i guess it true when people say you can lead a horse to water but can't make them drink it. So in 2010 if i run into any loser i shall not try and help them become better because will be forever losers no matter what!

So Now I would love to hear what thing/lesson you guys have learned in 2009?


tha unpretentious narcissist © said...

damn @ the loser thing. i've had my share. i pretty much changed this chick life and she threw it back in my face. walked off thought she could do it by herself. and came back within a month with her hands back out & head hung low.

guess the thing i learned in 2009, to only invest in others what they invest in you. that way you don't end up losing out on your end.still trying to put that shit in motion for 2010. we'll see how it goes.

Traci Lavette said...

Glad you left his ass curbside! He had to go 4-REAL! You shoulda been saying "Once a Mama's boy...Always a Mama's boy". I have known a few that need to put a APB out on manhood LOL!!!

In 2010, I learned that I have to stop relying on others to make the moves in life that I want to make. I have looked to others to put the stamp of approval on things I want to do and when they don't, I lose confidence. Got to put that curbside. Thanks for asking, Chica!

Love, Hugs, and Smooches

JStar said...

I have learned patience is virtue...Being impatient gets me no where

Krissy said...

I learned that no matter the situation GOD makes a way to pull me threw it and make a way out of no way

Lipglass and Handbags said...

"You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink."

I learned the same lesson @ one time in two different way this year. It was in relation to men. A fool is a fool, and sometimes people have to lose the thing or person they want most for them to come into who the better person they will ultimately evolve into.

I had to let that fool go for good after 4years...