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Monday, November 30, 2009

Talking To Me?


because If you are you should speak on it!.....That's was the conclusion my cousin Kiah, friend Myanda, and I came to early Friday morning when were on our way to those black Friday sales. Now when the three of us get together its kinda like the meeting of the minds, we touch on everything from careers to pregnancy..nothing is off limit to us. Myanda brought the subject of people sending indirect messages to her....and i know if not all of us then some of us can relate to that one. Myanda had a lil beef with her bffs boyfriend and she found out that he was leaving messages on his Fb, Twitter, in emails, all sorts of communication about her, He never called her out in any of his thoughts just said things that other including her could insinuate that it was her! Pure madness I say. The whole situations brought a laugh to all of us .. sad but true that type of stuff happens every day..morning...noon...and night. Me, personally I hate indirect messages. I hate when people make comments and quote about a person or group of people and never call them out on it. The indirect shit just ain't for me...its childish and immature and it makes me smh...maybe I just grew up far differently then some people I lived in a house that when you had something say you spoke on it no matter what it was, it need to be shared so it could be address instead of you sitting on it and just sending out message that the person or persons may never get. Why waste your time and energy on hoping they get the message? Why not just say what you wanna know? You know why....that would be to easy if you just opened your mouth and spoke on it! Wouldn't the hassle of getting your point across be so much easier?...*kanye shrug* maybe its just me. Over my 26 years of this earth I have been the topic of discussion in some indirect messages...Some of them mad me laugh others made me mad but one thing I can say about them are they never really existed to me in my world. One because I don't entertain non sense and secondly if you can't call me out of them..then they don't mean anything to me. I always think people are so bold enough to send the messages to you in whatever form or fashion they put it in but never that bold enough to ask you about it face to face or how ever the way they wanna do it. I can respect someone so much more when they bring it to me instead of hoping I see it and send another indirect message back in answer...how fucking rude is that! So what do they expect you to do send indirect messages back and forth until the problem get resolved or some one gets mad? or u fight lil mama? I mean which one is it. I guess some indirect messages are used to spare feelings or to address it that one time but if you were worried about how a person would feel about it then you should never brought it up and if you didn't wanna talk about it...why put it out there? those are things that make u say hmmmmmm..... I mean whats the worst someone can say to you but give you the answer you were looking for or curse you out about it but either way you are not hiding behind a quote or message that made there way to them. Now as I'm writing this someone brought it to my attention that this whole blog can be interpreted as an "Indirect Message" can I can see where that person is coming from but the only way anyone could take it like that is if you sent me an indirect message...right? so trust and believe if i was sending any kind of message it would be direct.....sorry?

Anyway I look at it like this we are all adults and if you can't like one and speak your mind on it...then whats the use of even bring it up.

24 comments:

khaki said...

I KNOW YOU NOT TALKIN BOUT ME!?!?!?!? *HAIR FLIP*

tha unpretentious narcissist © said...

i'm with you about the indirect comment thing. but i find sometimes, to let someone know how you feel without ripping them a new one you have to do it indirectly.

not all the times. but sometimes it'll save on direct hurt feelings and get your point across. i admit tho dude was showcasing a bit of punkassness tho.

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