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I'm young, black, single and fabulous!!! Trying to live my life to the fullest before its all said and done with . I'm just trying to figure it all out!


Sunday, June 20, 2010

Thanks Starrla Monae !! #20

I had been running out ideas for a blog post since I got month of writing to do so my girl Starrla Monae...yeah make sure you check her out... She gave me a couple of ideas well actually she gave me alot of idea to work with so here goes one of them....

Would I ever propose to a man?

At first I thought this would be a very hard question to answer because I'm more of liberal type chick. I don't believe in some the old way we use to conduct ourselves in the world...I believe we can anything that a man can do and sometimes better but in this case I have to go against all that I believe.

Now I was brought up in a household where my mother did all the womanly things l;Ike cook, clean, and tend to the kids so i said when i got to that point in my life i would never be her but when it comes to marriage and proposal I'm a old time girl at heart. I want the special romantic proposal that he put his heart into. Him getting down on one knee nerves and popping the question to me and of course me crying my eyes out and saying yes. I see that play out in my head from time to time so me proposing a him would be out of the question. Something like that I feel is the man responsibility and not mine. I can't even seeing me getting down on one knee and asking him to marry me...yeah I'll pass on that. My thought on that is if you have to ask a man to marry you its usually he taking too long to pop the question...which to means he is not that in to you and doesn't want to marry you!!! sorry? I believe should take that step of making the relationship so much more than just boyfriend and girlfriend...we can discuss it happening one day but me making it happening my buying him a ring and messing up my leggings by getting down on bended knee probably will never happen. If he doesn't pop the question to me...then hey maybe it wasn't meant to be.


LionsVictory said...

I agree. I can't see myself asking a man to marry me b/c it would seem like he didn't want it. Plus every girl has the dream of being proposed to!

★Starrla Monae☆ said...

Yeah eff all this "independent women let's step into the 21st century" bs of chasing after what you want. Look here! If a man wants YOU, you'll know it. Me proposing will NEVER happen. I'm still an old fashioned girl and I want my man to get on his knee and make me cry lots of tears as he professes his love for me.

tha unpretentious narcissist© said...

if a woman asked me to marry her, i'd asked to see the ring.

cause we all know men's rings SUCK. especially the rings chicks pick out. so i'd just be an ass and say, "that's it?...".

then be like yes, i'll marry you..SINCE I KNOW YOU AIN'T SERIOUS ANYWAY..lol